Do not exasperate family relations on mobile electronic products

Recently, the All-China Women's Federation conducted a survey on the relationship between the Chinese Family Happiness Index and mobile electronic products. The results showed that respondents who used mobile electronic products to accompany their spouses had significantly lower marital well-being than did and sometimes used mobile electronic products when accompanying their spouse. Respondents. It is concluded that overuse of mobile electronic products has affected marital relations, parent-child relationships, and personal health. Therefore, the All-China Women's Federation calls for an hour off every day to get along with the family.

However, in the face of father and son's alienation, indifferent friendship, academic neglect, etc., "mobile phone dependence" is often regarded as the initiator. Nowadays, unfortunate marriages and unmatched husband and wife are said to have proved to be related to “cell phones”. In this context, there are professional organizations yelling that "shut down for an hour and care for people around us" is really true and full of goodwill. Only need to consider is that the conclusion that electronic products affect family relations is really reliable?

According to the existing survey, we seem to be convinced that "overuse of mobile phones will lead to unhappy marriages." However, if we reverse this conclusion and say, "Marriage is not happy, it tends to use mobile phones more," why not? ? You should know that in all kinds of related investigations, “the cause of falling fruit” has always been the most common logical fallacy. And who can explain clearly, if the marriage is unhappy, and the mobile phone is frequently used, after all, the reason is that you will not be able to talk about it. What if?

Of course, although the so-called "survey" may not be so rigorous, people can generally conclude that "mobile phones will affect marital happiness" based on daily life experience. This is because mobile electronic products will occupy a large amount of family communication time, cause the degradation of individual social skills, and will lead to information dependence disorders, as well as the corresponding anxiety; a well-known saying is that smart phones are popular, Remove people from the familiar family structure. Since then, the “networked survival” that transcends time and space has been intensified, and the real touchable loved ones relationship has been left out.

Since this is the case, the proposal to “turn off one hour and care for people around us” is justified. It is ideal and ideal, but it is bound to be difficult to practice. Imagine, in an era known as "mobile Internet", "one day off every day", what is a luxury and unrealistic thing? Moreover, if the happiness of marriage is to be rescued by “shutdown”, does this type of marriage seem too humble and too fragile? In fact, no one can deny the existence of "the evil of mobile phones," but we cannot equally magnify the "negative effects of tools." Putting all sin and punishment on the mobile phone is just a matter of swearing.

Whether it is a mobile phone or other tool product, they are essentially technically neutral. What kind of social reality does it have? Therefore, "shut down for an hour" may not make marriage more happier. Only when we regain our interest in marital life and find the patience and skills to run a family relationship, everything will really get better.